You have met your next love of your life, and you are so excited you cant even think straight. Thats probably say that love is blind, huh. Everyone has had this happen in the past and has been let down, sometimes even ignoring certain signs that may render that person un trustworthy and its the worst feeling in the world.
Have they given you their home phone number or is it just a cell phone number that you have? Have you been to their home? Do they ever have to leave suddenly when the two of you are right in the middle of something?
If you stop and think about it for a few minutes, does it seem as if they are hiding something from you? This can be something that is pretty hard to take. You don’t want to think of the possibility of this person lying to you or being involved or married already. However, it happens every single day.
If you are unsure, there are a few things you can do to tell whether or not it is alright to continue on or if you need to have caution. Pay attention to the person. Do they act like they have other things to do? Are they always checking the time or do they always have to leave suddenly?
If so they may have lied to their they may have given themselves time to spend with you before they have to return to their other lives. Have they asked if you want to meet their family? have you been to their home? Or just a hotel, and have you been dating for a while if so you probably are just another affair.
Another thing you can do is visit a website and do a people search or a back round check. All you have to do is enter their phone number or their address and you can find out all kinds of useful information. You will find out their home phone number and address if you don’t already have it. You can find their marriage or divorce certificates so that you know if they are married or not.
You can find out if they have ever been charged with a crime and much more. This is one great way to ease your mind.If they are not married, perhaps it is just a fear of commitment or something else keeping them from having you over to meet their family. Either way, at least you will know that you’re not contributing to the pain of someone else.
Finally find out if your new honey is telling you the truth before you find out the hard way.
Are You Perpetually "The Friend", Part 1
