With infidelity rates being higher now than ever before, it’s not surprising how many people have suspicions that their spouse might be cheating. It you have your suspicions, you will be glad to know there’s an easy way to find out.
This simple “detective’s tactic” can get you the answers you want without your spouse ever knowing that you were “investigating” them. Let’s cut to the chase and go over each step.
Step #1
The first thing you need to do is get a hold of your spouse’s cell phone for about 15-20 minutes. Pick a time where you don’t have to worry about them “catching” you or walking in on you.
Look over all of the calls that show up in their call history on the phone. Make sure you look at both the incoming and outgoing calls – most cell phones will have a list for both of these call types.
When you are doing this write down every phone number that you see on a piece of paper. If you see phone numbers that you recognize for sure you can leave them off your list – just make sure to write out any number that doesn’t look familiar.
Step Number Two
In this next step you are going to put a name to every phone number on your list – this is the most important step in getting the answers you are looking for.
You can find out someone’s full name, address and background information just by having their phone number. This type of search is called a ‘reverse phone lookup’ and will give you instant access to full details about who owns any phone number.
There are companies that specialize in gathering phone records (they pay for this info) and then build massive databases that have information on any phone number (including unlisted and cell phone numbers). You just have to type in the phone number and the details are then displayed on your computer screen.
As I’m sure you guessed, there is a charge for running a search, but it’s only a few bucks. What you will want to look for is a company that only charges a one-time fee for unlimited reverse phone searches so that you don’t have to pay for each individual search you make.
Right at the bottom of this article there’s a link we included so you can use a free sample search to get an idea of how this works.
Go through your entire list of phone numbers and run a search for each one. As you do this write down the details that you uncover for each one.
Step #3
Now that you have completed the first two steps you have an entire list of exactly who your spouse has been talking to on the phone. This is a powerful piece of information – once you know who your partner has been communicating with it becomes easy to see if there is something ‘fishy’ happening.
Go over your list and look at what you see. If there is anything suspicious it is sure to jump off the page at you. You have the name and details about every person your spouse has been talking to on their phone so it’s easy to spot anything unusual.
This “investigative” technique is an easy way to find out if your spouse is cheating on you without them ever knowing what you are doing. You need to know if your spouse is treating you with the respect you deserve and this gives you an easy way to find out.
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